Posted at 10:45 am , on July 30, 2017
When it all gets too much, and anger is beginning to well up, think before launch into one. Don’t leap straight in, don’t jump to conclusions and don’t mind read your partner’s intentions – the chances are you’ll be wrong anyway! Simply make an excuse and leave the situation for a few minutes.
Otherwise, you’re in danger of creating a situation you cannot get back from.
Posted at 10:02 am , on July 29, 2017
You don’t go through your partner’s things to prove they’re NOT cheating.
Posted at 3:38 pm , on July 28, 2017
If you’ve made your point, sometimes you just need to stop talking.
You’re in danger of turning what could be a valuable learning into a self-defence class, or using it as a springboard to highlight everything else that’s wrong.
Posted at 9:27 am , on July 26, 2017
Love is not a reason to tolerate &&%%%! Know your boundaries, respect your own values. Love doesn’t give anyone the right to disrespect you.
Posted at 3:22 pm , on July 25, 2017
How can I put this….?
If you’re in an exclusive, one-one-one relationship, there’s no need for a third person. It may seem sexy/exciting/grown-up/fun, but trust me, it nearly always ends in tears. This is one temptation that you should leave alone, unless you are prepared to lose everything.
And if your partner says they will leave you if you don’t comply…….Wave them goodbye!
Posted at 4:31 pm , on July 24, 2017
Your health will benefit from it, your partner will benefit from it, your relationship will benefit from it – and your children will thank you for it.
Theresa Fearon is a certified Relationship and Life Coach, NLP Therapist and Reiki Master.
Posted at 1:38 pm , on July 21, 2017
Empower yourself –
Instead of saying, “I’m damaged, I’m broken, I have trust issues,” say “I’m healing, I’m re-discovering myself, I’m starting over”.
Positive self talk for 21 days and watch your life change.
Posted at 8:19 am , on July 20, 2017
IF THE THINGS YOUR PARTNER DOES ANNOY YOU, YOU HAVE 3 CHOICES
LIVE WITH IT AND HATE IT.
LIVE WITH IT AND LIKE IT.
Posted at 5:08 pm , on July 19, 2017
You don’t have to re-build a relationship with everyone you’ve forgiven. Just because you’re at peace doesn’t mean that they’re not still toxic.
Posted at 4:55 pm , on July 19, 2017
This week, I was reminded just how indiscriminatory the finger of fate is. I went to two funerals – in one day. Two people at opposite ends of the scale – one who had passed her half-century and the other who hadn’t even quite gone through the Terrible Twos.
And they both broke my heart.
I caught up with a load of people I hadn’t seen since I left school. We swapped stories, swapped numbers and swapped fears that the next time we saw each other again, it would be in another moment like this, mourning the loss of someone. Or even worse – we wouldn’t see each other again…….
If someone means something to you, say it. Hold them close, and make surethey know just how important they are to you. And don’t leave it too late to reconnect.